10 dicas para você não se perder de você!!

Olá Leitoras!!!

 

Pra você que tá chegando hoje, seja bem vinda (o) e você que está voltando ficamos felizes em te ver por aqui de novo.

Hoje eu queria falar um pouco de maternidade, mas antes voltei no post Dilema Materno I para rever algumas reflexões, ele foi escrito a mais de 1 ano, e surgiu através de meus questionamentos se tratando de maternidade, mas olha que curioso hoje eu voltei a me questionar mas não como mãe e sim como mulher, como assim?! Explico.

Depois de 7 anos e meio dedicados as minhas funções de mãe, dona de casa e esposa comecei a sentir falta de mim mesma, louco isso né?! E aí comecei a repensar algumas atitudes no sentido de mudar e buscar o equilíbrio dessa balança louca que é a vida.

Então eu resolvi listar nesse post 10 dicas para ajudar você a voltar a “ser mulher” mesmo depois dos filhos. Logo esse post é pra mim, pra você, pra sua amiga, pra sua mãe, pra quem está precisando se reencontrar.

1 – Tire um tempo pra você com você mesma, sem culpa. As vezes ficar sozinha nos traz auto conhecimento, ajuda a identificar as insatisfações e buscar novos caminhos.

2 – Procure suas amigas que não são mães, normalmente elas se afastam por não entender algumas limitações que a maternidade nos impõe.

3 – Vá ao cinema, ao teatro.

4 – Uma vez por mês tente sair só com o marido, ou namorado sem falar de filhos.

5 – Procure um vez por ano viajar sem os filhos, por mais difícil que possa parecer é um experiência libertadora.

6 – Vá ao salão quando puder. Lá além de se cuidar e relaxar você conversa com pessoas diferentes e ri sobre diversos assuntos.

7 – Se permita a parar tudo que está fazendo naquela hora que passa o seriado que você adora.

8 – Estipule um tempo todos os dias só pra você, seja pra dormir, comer (sem ninguém te interromper), ver filme, fazer nada, o tempo é seu, você escolhe.

9 – Não dê ouvidos quando as pessoas te criticarem por qualquer coisa que tenha feito pra você mesma, as vezes precisamos ser egoístas.

10 – Permita-se, essa é a palavra chave para se manter bem.

Nunca se esqueça, só você sabe de suas lutas e vitórias, então busque sem culpa a sua sanidade para se manter feliz e saudável. Afinal mulher FELIZ, família FELIZ!!!

vidade

Lugar que eu amo, me traz paz e alegria.

Beijos e até a próxima.

 

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    Na hora em que me sinto sobrecarregada além de fazer todas essas dicas sempre entrego nas mãos Deus o meu cansaço e desanimo pois só ele e capaz de restaurar nossas forças mentais e principalmente espiritais.

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